After institute, a
group of us played murder in the dark. It's such a fun game but it was not the
best. Everyone teamed up, it was in too big of a space (the
whole church building), and you could see most of what was going on due to the exit lights. I had fun regardless because I talked to Matt, and Ethan
throughout the game. After the game we kept talking and the three of us ended
up staying at the church until 2 am. We had some really insightful
conversations. We talked about hugging, facial hair, gaming (not that I
participated in that area), love, friends, missions and other topics.
Hugging was the
major topic of discussion that night. It came up because I said that I do not
usually like hugging, and that surprised Ethan. I just like my personal space. I
don't like hugging people I don't know very well, and I also don't like hugging
people if they hug me awkwardly or if they don’t like hugging themselves. I
like to have somewhat of an emotional connection with people; I don’t like
giving them out willy-nilly. Then the three of us went about hugging each other
which was funny. I don’t want to make anyone think I’m this closed off weirdo, I
really do like being touched/hugged by close friends (Boise weekend anyone?)!
Over the weekend, there was
a YSA conference centered around a trip to Gettysburg. On Friday, Beth and I
met up and carpooled to Ethan’s house. Then we drove the hour down to a church
building down there. We played Apples to Apples for a little while and ate
dinner. The mingle game was after dinner and it got us very comfortable with
each other. We had six people stand on a towel and we had to flip the towel to
the other side without anyone stepping off. I rode piggy-back which was very
fun except for thinking I was going to fall on my head when Denay leaned forward to move the towel. We did not end up winning but when we
got it, we were able to do it the quickest, at about thirty seconds.
Then we drove to the girls’
camp to drop people off with their stuff (since we were in a fifteen passenger
van) before it got too dark. On the road, the guys behind us were pulled over!
Sad day. Then we met up at camp to go on a ghost tour in downtown Gettysburg.
On the way to our tour, we had to stop at a sobriety check point. Ethan
realized he did not have his wallet and license with him. The cops were nice
and let us through, probably because we were there with fifteen mormons for a
church activity (and “Ethan didn’t fit the profile”). The ghost tour was very
fun, Sam was the guide. She worked as a tour guide for these tours for five
summers so it was pretty great. We listened to some ghost stories and then
walked around to see if we could find anything. We did not unfortunately. Then we
headed back through the sobriety check point to get through the camp. We were
very nervous if they would let us through again, but they did. Then we headed
to the camp, then the church then home. We were supposed to pass through the checkpoint for a third time but instead we took a detour, through Mummasburg Road (yes it is that ridiculous). It was an hour and a half drive back,
which started around 1:30 in the morning. We ended up going to bed a little
past three.
Also, there were a lot of sassy things I said this weekend, and the things I said making fun of Ethan as well. Those will be up on a separate post soon.